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Annika Bigeleisen's avatar

Thank you, Heather, for mentioning Detrans Awareness Day.

I am a trans desister, meaning I identified and came out as transgender but stopped my transition process when my spouse who had lived as a transwoman for 8 years expressed severe transition regret. I am grateful that I got out before making irreversible changes to my body and risking the many dangerous side effects of drugs and surgeries that so many other detransitioners suffer from.

With deep inner work it is possible to heal from the pain that is labeled gender dysphoria. It wasn't an easy journey, but I now feel comfortable in my own skin, at home in my female body, accepting of being a woman, and more grounded and content than I have ever been in my life.

I shared my story for the very first time a couple of weeks ago (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6q48s55Wkc&t=1s) and your writing and podcast has played a big part in me finding the courage to do so. Thank you for doing what you do, Heather, and for bringing attention to detransitioners and desisters.

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Mike, Lambs Quarters Farm's avatar

As a small sheep farmer, that graphic about the hay drives me nuts. It's such a conventional approach. Good fertile soil, when managed well, is it's own fertility. That might mean letting a field go fallow for a year and mow it so the cuttings break down to provide next year's fertility, or doing rotational grazing effectively. But no, lets keep cutting it and dumping petrochemicals on it. The funny thing about animals that eat hay, they LOVE weeds! Take something like Lambs Quarters - a horrible "weed", but actually has more nutrients than most grasses and animals love it. Weeds thrive in bad soils, they are the pioneer species and they drill down for nutrients and bring it up for future "better" plants.

When it comes to farming, just like when it came to renewable energy, we were on the cusp of coming up with a new story: regenerative agriculture, and it was picking up steam. But this war seems to have put that conversation by the wayside. Forget about the fact that we have the solution to fix the problem of petrochemicals, lets just stick with the old system and inform the consumer they are going to be in big trouble. Nah, time for a new story and I'm not following that one.

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